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7 Reasons Why I Like Religion

January 30, 2012


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There’s been a lot of discussion lately about how bad religion is, so bad it seems that some claim Jesus hated it. According to one singer, “All religion ever made of me was just a sinner with a stone tied to my feet.”

Well I’m a sinner but I think Christ has actually helped me untie stones from my feet through the Catholic religion.

If  instead of being helped you’ve been hurt by religion, I am sorry. Maybe it was the members of that religion, not the religion itself.  Religions are made up of people who regularly make mistakes but it doesn’t mean God’s not there.

Here are some reasons why I believe Jesus is not only OK with religion, but is working through it to heal, unite and sanctify His people.

1. Jesus started one.

When Jesus tells St. Peter, “Upon this rock I will build my Church” in Matt. 16:18, He doesn’t sound very anti-religion. He’s starting His own religion as a fulfillment of the one He practiced all His life. He doesn’t call for abolishing any of the Jewish law. (Luke 16:17)

2. It helps many people in need.
Contrary to claims that religion doesn’t help the poor, the Catholic Church is actually the largest non-governmental provider of education, health care, and human services in this country. It helps families and communities to combat hunger and homelessness, overcome poverty and dependency, build housing, resist crime and seek greater justice. It also offers relief and development in more than 80 countries.

3. It is all of us together.
There are times when it’s extremely comforting to know that a lot of people are going through the same things I am. My religion is not a building, although we have some beautiful ones. It’s people who love each other because they love Christ, and want to spend eternity with Him. It’s holy men and women who lived during the past 2,000 years and continue to help me through their prayers and support. And it’s knowing that in every country in the world I will find others who believe as I do. Because of God and my religion, I am never alone.

4.  It does what Jesus told us to do.
At the Last Supper He said, “Do this in memory of Me.” (Luke 22:19) If He’d wanted us carry out His wishes alone, He would have given the Apostles one-on-one instructions instead of calling everyone together. St. Paul reaffirms this in I Cor. 11:24

5.  Through it, Jesus feeds me when I’m hungry and heals me when I’m broken.
The Lord could come directly into my home and give me communion and absolution for my sins but instead He does it through others–men in directly line from the Apostles who had the original assignment.

6. It promotes peace.
I’m sure some wars have been fought because of Christianity, though it’s not always clear if the Church has been directly to blame. What I do know is that people in my religion work tirelessly for peace. At Vatican II, the Council Fathers exhorted “Christians to cooperate with all in securing a peace based on justice and charity and in promoting the means necessary to attain it, under the help of Christ, author of peace. (Pacem in Terris)

Through history, a total of 43 popes have brought peace and settled disputes between warring factions. You don’t hear much about that. One of them was Pope St. Leo I who faced Attila the Hun in 452. Words were exchanged near Mantua, Italy, and afterwards Attila promised to withdraw his forces from Italy and negotiate peace with the Roman emperor.

7. It is about humans searching for God.
I’m searching for God, too, so that makes the Church a good fit for me. Even though Jesus started this religion, He left it for humans to run with the Holy Spirit’s help. I am imperfect and broken and so are all the other members of my religion. But together we are stronger (Ecc. 4:12) and we are doing what the Lord told us to do. (See all four gospels.)




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Ever thought of yourself as an angel? Here’s how you could be one

December 16, 2011



All this Advent spreading of inspiration. What follows is a post that was headlined “Silent Christmas Angels” and shared by Bob Proctor as his “Friday story” on http://www.Insightoftheday.com


By Virginia Hay


From the emails I have been receiving lately and my own observations out there in the world I would have to say that a lot of people are really going through some difficult times right now.


The population is aging and this is impacting those who are growing older, those who are taking care of them, and those who are alone.


The other day I witnessed a lady in our building who had just been dropped off by one of those handicapped vans, and even though she was not in a wheelchair herself, I could see that she had serious mobility issues.

She had just returned from visiting her beloved husband and lifelong companion who was now confined to a nursing home. I had seen them out walking together a few years earlier, laughing and holding hands and thoroughly enjoying each others company.

As she slowly made her way to the front of the door, she held the key in her hand ready to open the lock. And then at that precise moment she just leaned in toward the building and started to cry. I could see from the look of anguish on her weary face, that she was trying to summon the courage to enter the building, walk up the stairs, and open her apartment door, just to be alone once again for yet another evening without him.


 Should I go comfort her?


My heart went out to her. I wanted to rush over and hug her but got the feeling to just honor her presence instead and the precious space she was in. I sensed that she was a very private person and just needed to be alone in that moment. Sometimes the moment can carry us through when we don’t have the strength to carry ourselves.


I did hold her in the light in my heart and whispered a quiet prayer that somehow things would get better for her and that she would know that she is deeply loved, even though I am sure she was certainly not feeling that love right then.


I think sometimes if we can simply acknowledge each others pain, without trying to fix things, then that may be the greatest gift we can give to another human being. I don’t mean wallow in the pain or focus on it, but to just acknowledge it with deep compassion, would make a huge difference to so many.


We are human and pain is part of the journey. If we ever allow ourselves to love anyone or anything for that matter, pain is an integral part of the process because some day we may, probably will, lose that person, place or thing to which we have become attached, either physically, mentally or emotionally. Of course, the price of not loving, of not seeking, of not becoming involved, is a much deeper and emptier pain that strips away at our soul and destroys our spirit.


Your spirit will always reach towards the love and your soul will always take the higher road.


 Let’s do our angelic part


And so I would suggest that this holiday season, we answer our soul’s calling and “take the higher road” by becoming “Silent Christmas Angels” for each other, especially at this difficult time of year for so many. Christmas has a way of surfacing so many emotions and memories, some joyful and some not so joyful.


So, as a “Silent Christmas Angel”, be on the look-out as to where you could shine your light on someone else’s darkness. Be constantly aware to where your wings may take you, whether it be in a busy shopping mall, a lonely sidewalk cafe, a homeless shelter, a park bench, a Christmas dinner or party. Be constantly vigil of where you could look beyond the surface to the deeper pain that may be lurking there and attend to it in whatever way and means may lie before you.


Pretend you have been given a mission and are part of the “Silent Christmas Angel Invasion” of whatever city you live in or visit and it is your job to keep the home fires burning and heal the hearts and souls of those you encounter along the way.


Sounds daunting? Fear not! You have at your command an arsenal of tools with which to do your work.


We have all that it takes

A magic wand that you can point and shoot better than any camera will ever do and grant silent wishes to unsuspecting troubled hearts, uplifting them in the twinkling of an eye and restoring peace on earth.


A big, beautiful, heart full of love, with light beams that extend from you for miles and miles ahead washing away any sadness that may appear in the distance and replacing it with joy, wonder, belief in the magic, trust in the knowing, that we are all in this together and we are truly loved.


Dancing, daring, delightful Angel eyes, that dispense laughter, spread kindness, seek miracles, offer compassion, give thanks and beam these out into all the other eyes that meet yours along the way, eliciting an enchanting smile of knowing and surprised look of tender acknowledgement.


And we “Silent Christmas Angels” have the ability to recognize each other. A knowing glance, a curious nod, a gentle, sweet and unsuspecting touch. A sacred salute to a comrade in arms and wings and halos.


And so, dear heart, will YOU join me? Will you take your place among us? Will I sense you standing there next to me wherever I may journey?


I think I already have and I know that I will, for I feel you here, reading these words, and I already recognize you.


Veronica Hay is an inspirational writer. She provides inspirational support and resources to help you live a richer life. Visit her website at:http://www.insightsandinspirations.comor email her at:veronicahay@telus.net

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Catholic bishop who’s seen hurting up close has thoughtful words to share

September 30, 2011


We all experience pain, loss, disasters both major and minor. It’s what we do about our hurts that matters.

Bishop Paul Zipfel of Minot, North Dakota, has had a front-row seat as flood waters have devastated not just homes and businesses but lives this year in that community in the Upper Midwest.

In preaching at a Mass for Healing for those who have had homes washed away and who otherwise have suffered from the flooding, Bishop Zipfel offered advice for coping with all that’s happened.

First, remember you’re not alone. Others are standing in solidarity with you. And so is he as their brother.

Second, trust that God is with us and loves us more than we can ever imagine. “While we may not be able to heal ourselves or one another fully,” he said, “God’s healing power is infinitely greater than any hurt and pain, no matter how deeply these are rooted in our lives.”

Third, ask God to give you peace of mind and to help remove any residual anger that must still plague you, help you to be reconciled.

The bishop quoted Victor Frankl, the World War II victim and author who wrote, “Everything can be taken from a man, except for one thing: the last of the human freedoms — the freedom to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.”

Bishop Zipfel urged people to try to let go of their hurts and angers. “Holding on to hurts is like carrying red-hot coals inside us that can be fanned into flames at the least expected moment,” he said.

Don’t deny pain, but know that you are loved, and that will help begin the healing process, he added.

Finally, the bishop asked, “How do you know when you’re healed?”

When you are grateful for the experience.

“Not that you would ever be grateful for the devastation,” the bishop said, “but rather you are grateful for the growth, the greater capacity to love and understand and to feel with others. Forgetting is not one of the signs of being healed. You may be healed of the hurt, but still remember it. Whoever said the ‘to forgive is to forget’ was oversimplifying.”

Source: Dakota Catholic Action. Read all of Bishop Zipfel’s homily here.



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